Father's Day at The Rocks | 1st September 2024
Church history demonstrates that one of the constant struggles of Christianity, both individually and corporately, is with culture. Where should we stand? Inside the culture? Outside? Ignore it? While it is true that our culture has been tainted by sin, it is also true that Jesus came to our world, not to avoid culture but to redeem it with his grace. Movies are a huge part of our culture. Well-made movies speaks a lot on people’s current worldviews, struggles, and longing. They touch on deep, timeless truths that resonates with our heart and soul. So, in this series, we’re going to be looking at some of these timeless truths in some of this year’s biggest movies.

Small Group Discussion Questions

Below you will find access to each week's discussion questions!
Closer Than You Think [How to Train Your Dragon]

What if the person you’ve written off is the person who could change your life? Using How to Train Your Dragon, we explore how fear builds walls and proximity breaks them down. Jesus said something radical: love your enemies. Not because it’s easy, but because it’s the only thing that proves something has actually changed in you. This week, we’re challenged to close a gap — ask a question instead of making a statement, share a meal instead of a debate, and get close enough to discover the full story.


Discussion Questions:
  1. Who is the “dragon” in your life — the person or group you’ve kept at a distance? What story have you built about them?
  2. Where did your assumptions about that person come from? Your own experience, or something inherited?
  3. Read John 13:34–35. Jesus said the world would know his followers by their love. What would that look like in your life this week?
  4. What’s one practical step you could take to “close a gap” with someone you’ve been avoiding?

Redemption Ain't a Redo [F1]
We all wish for a second chance, but what if that’s not what we actually need? This message unpacks why redemption isn’t about starting over, but about God stepping into the mess we can’t undo. Looking at failure, regret, and the parts of our story we’d rather hide, we see how Jesus meets us right there—not once we’ve fixed ourselves. Whether you’re carrying shame or just tired of repeating the same patterns, consider a different way forward: not a re-do, but real transformation.

Discussion Questions:
  1. When you hear the word “redemption,” what comes to mind first?
  2. Do you tend to see your life as needing a second chance, or something deeper? Why?
  3. Have you ever tried to “start fresh” but ended up in the same patterns again? What was that like?
  4. Which do you relate to more: outrunning your past, or being defined by it?
  5. What makes it hard to be honest about the parts of your story you’d rather hide?
  6. The message suggests God meets us in our failure, not after we fix it—how does that sit with you?
  7. What could it look like for you to “stop hiding” in a practical way this week?
  8. Where do you need to believe that God isn’t finished with your story yet?
Chosen & Accepted [Shazam]
Everyone wants to belong— but what if the family you’ve been looking for is already in front of you? Using the movie Shazam, this talk explores our deep need for belonging and what it means to be adopted into God’s family. You’re not just accepted—you’re chosen. And with that comes purpose. The question is: what are you doing with what you’ve been given? Whether you feel overlooked, unworthy, or unsure where you fit, rediscover your identity and challenges you to use your gifts to build others up.

Discussion Questions:
  1. What do you usually look to (people, achievement, approval, etc.) to feel like you do belong?
  2. Have you ever believed something about yourself that wasn’t true—but still shaped how you lived? What was it?
  3. Which feels more natural for you right now: trying to prove yourself, or resting in being accepted? Why do you think that is?
  4. Read Romans 8:15. If you actually believed you were fully accepted by God, what would change in your day-to-day life?
  5. Where are you currently using your gifts mostly for yourself instead of for others?
  6. What’s one specific way you could use your time, ability, or influence this week to build someone else up?

More Resources

Bible Reading Plan - Main Focus

Pulling back the curtain to see the connection between film and faith. Reel Dialogue is a creative dialogue between the Christian faith and entertainment culture. (Yes, even military films) We provide film reviews, downloadable discussion guides, resources and events. Let's get the dialogue started on film. These conversation starters will help you start faith discussions with friends through the beauty of film.

Additional Bible Plans

Read through each week's devotion guides on the Bible App - be sure to add The Rocks as your church in the Bible app to get notified each week. There are permalinks to each one below.

Read More

The below books would be what we recommend to do a full deep dive into everything we are tracking with on Sundays. They are below in order of complexity.

Culture Code

Dan Coyle
How do you build and sustain a great team? A ground-breaking exploration of how successful groups operate – whether in sport, business or society as a whole – and what we can learn from them. The Culture Code reveals the secrets of some of the best teams in the world – from Pixar to Google to US Navy SEALs – explaining the three skills such groups have mastered in order to generate trust and a willingness to collaborate. Combining cutting-edge science, on-the-ground insight and practical ideas for action, it offers a roadmap for creating an environment where innovation flourishes, problems get solved, and expectations are exceeded.

Christ and Culture

H. Richard Niebuhr
This book poses the challenge of being true to Christ in a materialistic age to an entirely new generation of Christian readers.

Counterfeit Gods: When the Empty Promises of Love, Money, and Power Let You Down

Timothy Keller
The issue of idolatry has been with the human race for thousands of years; the subtle temptation is always to take what is good and turn it into the ultimate good, elevating it above all other things in the search for security and meaning. In this timely and challenging book, New York pastor Timothy Keller looks at the issue of idolatry throughout the Bible - from the worship of actual idols in the Old Testament, to the idolatry of money by the rich young ruler when he was challenged by Jesus to give up all his wealth. Using classic stories from the Bible Keller cuts through our dependence on the glittering false idols of money, sex and power to uncover the path towards trust in the real ultimate - God. Culturally transforming as well as biblically based, Counterfeit Gods is a powerful look at the temptation to worship what can only disappoint, and is a vital message for today's current climate of financial and social difficulty.

Study More

Some of us may be at a point where want more structured theological discourse around these topics. Below you will find resources from a free online seminary that will be helpful. A seminary is simply a Christian university that focusses on theology and ministry.

Christ and Culture

In this lesson, gain an understanding of the biblical foundations and theological frameworks for missions, emphasizing God's missionary nature from the Old Testament through the New Testament. You will explore how Christ and the Holy Spirit are central to missions, culminating in the Book of Revelation where the global, multicultural nature of salvation is celebrated. This study challenges misconceptions about missions being optional, affirming its integral role in God's redemptive plan and the Church's identity as a missionary community.

Watch More

The below content would be what we recommend to do a bit more viewing around these ideas.

How the Christian Navigates the Culture

Passion City Church DC

Jesus in Hollywood (feat. Dallas Jenkins)

Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda

John Mark Comer Explains the Biggest Challenge Facing Modern Discipleship

Carey Nieuwhof