Father's Day at The Rocks | 1st September 2024
We live in a world that celebrates independence, rewards hustle and promises fulfilment through success, status and self-expression. Yet beneath the surface, many of us are anxious, exhausted and quietly wondering why the life we've built isn't delivering what we hoped.

The Shepherd of the City takes us through the timeless words of Psalm 23, uncovering how this ancient poem confronts the counterfeit shepherds of modern life. Over six weeks we'll discover that the answer to our deepest needs isn't found in consuming more, achieving more or proving more, but in following the Good Shepherd who leads us into true life.

Small Group Discussion Questions

Below you will find access to each week's discussion questions!
Week 1 | The Shepherd of Consumerism
We live in a world constantly telling us that the next purchase, promotion or upgrade will finally make life complete. But why does satisfaction never seem to last? Looking at Psalm 23:1, this message explores how consumer culture shapes our desires and why real contentment isn't found in what we own, but in the Shepherd who knows us. Whether you're exploring faith or have followed Jesus for years, discover a different way of living—one that's marked by peace instead of endless striving.

Discussion Questions:
  1. What's something you've wanted for a long time that didn't satisfy you as much as you expected?
  2. What stood out to you most from Psalm 23:1?
  3. What do you instinctively turn to when you're feeling empty, anxious or disappointed? Why do you think that is?
  4. If someone looked at your bank statement, calendar and social media habits, what would they conclude is shepherding your life? What are some "shepherds" competing for your attention and loyalty right now?
  5. What's one area of your life where Jesus is inviting you to trust Him instead of constantly chasing more?
  6. What practical step could help you trust Jesus more than your possessions this week?
Week 2 | The Shepherd of Hustle
Busy has become a badge of honour, but many of us are running on empty. Psalm 23:2 reveals that true rest isn't found in better time management or another holiday, but in the presence of the Good Shepherd. This message explores how Jesus invites us to stop striving for our worth and learn to live from His grace instead of constant pressure and performance.

Discussion Questions:
  1. When was the last time you felt completely at rest—not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually?
  2. What pressures make it difficult for you to slow down? What is your busyness protecting you from having to face?
  3. What challenged you most about Psalm 23:2?
  4. How does Jesus redefine success and productivity?
  5. What would it practically look like for you to work from acceptance rather than for acceptance this week?
Week 3 | The Shepherd of Relativism
Our culture tells us to follow our hearts and create our own truth, but where does that actually lead? Psalm 23:3 paints a different picture, showing that lasting freedom is found by following the Shepherd's path. This message explores why God's direction isn't restrictive but life-giving, and how Jesus offers certainty in an increasingly uncertain world.

Discussion Questions:
  1. Who has had the biggest influence on your values growing up?
  2. Why do you think our culture values "your own truth" so highly?
  3. What challenged or encouraged you from Psalm 23:3?
  4. Are there areas of your life where you've subtly become your own highest authority? What are they?
  5. How does Jesus change the way we think about truth?
  6. Where is God inviting you to trust His direction over your own?
Week 4 | The Shepherd of Fear
Fear has a way of shaping our decisions, relationships and future. Psalm 23:4 reminds us that courage isn't found in avoiding difficult seasons but in knowing we're not walking through them alone. This message explores how Jesus meets us in our darkest valleys and offers a hope that outlasts our circumstances.

Discussion Questions:
  1. What tends to make you feel anxious or uncertain?
  2. How do you usually respond to fear?
  3. What fear has been quietly shaping your decisions lately?
  4. What encouraged you most from Psalm 23:4?
  5. Is there a valley you've walked through that changed your understanding of God? What happened?
  6. Why is God's presence more significant than simply removing hardship?
  7. What does pretending to be "fine" actually cost you and the people around you?
  8. How does Jesus' journey through suffering give us hope?
  9. What would trusting God's presence look like in the situation that's currently keeping you awake at night?
Week 5 | The Shepherd of Tribalism
In a divided world, it's easy to surround ourselves with people who think like we do. Psalm 23:5 paints a surprising picture of God preparing a table even in the presence of enemies. This message explores how Jesus breaks down barriers, welcomes us with grace, and calls us to extend that same hospitality to others.Church isn’t just a place to belong—it’s a movement to participate in. In this talk, we explore the shift from casual community to “communitas”—a group of disciples radically committed to Jesus, each other, and His mission. Paul’s long list of greetings in Romans 16 isn’t small talk—it’s a blueprint for a bold, sacrificial, and missional family. If you’ve ever felt like community wasn’t enough, maybe what you’re longing for is communitas.

Discussion Questions:
  1. Where have social media, politics or culture tempted you to see people as opponents instead of people made in God's image?
  2. What stood out to you from Psalm 23:5?
  3. How has God's grace changed the way you see people who are different from you?
  4. Jesus welcomed people who disagreed with Him without compromising truth. Why is holding both grace and conviction so difficult?
  5. What makes hospitality such a powerful expression of the gospel?
  6. Who could you intentionally build a bridge with this week?
Week 6 | The Shepherd of Isolation
We're more connected than ever, yet loneliness continues to grow. Psalm 23:6 reminds us that God doesn't simply rescue us—He brings us home. In the final message of the series, discover how Jesus pursues us with relentless love and invites us into genuine belonging through His family and His presence.

Discussion Questions:
  1. What helps you feel like you truly belong?
  2. Why do you think loneliness is so common today?
  3. What parts of yourself do you work hardest to keep hidden from others? Why?
  4. What encouraged or challenged you from Psalm 23:6?
  5. Is independence a strength in your life, or has it become a defence mechanism? 
  6. How has independence sometimes become a barrier to deeper relationships?
  7. If you truly believed you belonged in God's family, how might that change the way you approach community, vulnerability and asking for help?

Bible Plans

Read through each week's devotion guides on the Bible App - be sure to add The Rocks as your church in the Bible app to get notified each week. There are permalinks to each one below.

Psalm 23: Walk With the Shepherd

Each day, believers are presented with an invitation: to walk with our Good Shepherd and follow his way. In this 14-day series, Psalm 23 provides our framework for considering just how to walk with Jesus. Each day will include a verse from Psalm 23, and find resonant passages throughout the Bible, full of illustrations and encouragement for following Jesus.

Beside Quiet Waters: Psalm 23
(For mothers)

In the exhaustion and demands of motherhood, Psalm 23 invites you to draw near to God, your Good Shepherd. When you are weak and weary, you can fall back upon him to sustain you and your family.

Read More

The below books would be what we recommend to do a full deep dive into everything we are tracking with on Sundays. They are below in order of complexity.

A Non-Anxious Presence

Mark Sayers
The history of the church shows that crisis precedes renewal. Mark Sayers, bestselling author of Disappearing Church, offers churches and leaders strategies to awaken the Church and see our culture changed for Christ.  

Abba's Child

Brennan Manning
We've bought into the lie that we are worthy of God's love only when our lives are going well. But when life begins to fall through the cracks and embarrassing sins threaten to reveal our less-than-perfect identity, we scramble to keep up a good front to present to the world and to God. Sadly, it is then that we wonder why we lack intimate relationships and a passionate faith.
 
God calls us to take the mask off and come openly to Him. He longs for us to know in the depth of our beings that He loves us and accepts us as we are. When we are our true selves, we can finally claim our identity as God's child and experience His pure pleasure in who we are. Brennan Manning encourages us to let go of the impostor lifestyle and freely accept our belovedness as a child of the heavenly Father. In Him there is life.

Listen More

The below podcasts would be what we recommend to do a bit more listening around these ideas.

Becoming Like Jesus

Becoming Something Podcast
In this episode, pastor and author Matt Chandler talks about his new book "Becoming Like Jesus". The path to holiness is oftentimes not a straight line. We talk with Matt about how God uses the ups and downs of life to shape us into the likeness of His Son!

Creativity is the Church's Lost Superpower

The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast
Most leaders don't think of themselves as creative, but maybe that's the lie keeping you stuck. Al, founder of Renaissance, lead pastor of SAINT in East London, talks about why creativity is the church's lost superpower, how stress and algorithms are quietly killing your imagination, and what it actually takes to unlock creativity in yourself, your team, and your church.

Watch More

The below content would be what we recommend to do a bit more viewing around these ideas.

Book of Psalms Summary

Bible Project

Questioning Christianity: Morality

Timothy Keller